I love this book.
I know I'm not married or engaged, but I still think it's amazing!
I love the social-interaction psychology in it. Dr. Chapman wrote this based on the theory that people most identify love with those that speak their primary "love language". Those that show their love through these five forms of "love languages":
-Words of Affirmation
-Quality Time
-Physical Touch
-Receiving Gifts
-Acts of Service
Can you guess what my primary language is?
I was surprised. I was almost sure that it was going to be "Quality Time". But it was tied. "Words of Affirmation" and "Physical Touch". I think I value "Quality Time" because I get the "Words of Affirmation" and "Physical Touch" in that time.
(To all the parental figures, don't worry. Physical Touch isn't just sexual. :P)
I made Trevor take the quiz, even though he thought I was being weird.
He got the same love language, but the points for "Acts of Service" were higher for him. I can think of a few people that are all "Acts of Service" and some that are totally "Receiving Gifts". It's very interesting to me.
Anyway, I highly recommend this book!
Don't worry. I got some fun reading in too. "Hush, Hush" by Becca Fitzpatrick. Interesting read.
1 comment:
No surprise at all to me. I would have guessed both of those for you. We all need hugs! And, we all need to know we are loved and appreciated. I treasure and love you!
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